How to Land Your Dream Girl – Part 1
So you have your sights set on the perfect woman. She is not showing any action in the partner box, or else just came off a break-up situation. She is intelligent, funny, hot as hell, and driving you absolutely crazy when you are in the same sim with her. You want to make a move, but don’t know where to go next. Well we are here to help you out. Let me introduce the first in what is sure to become a multi-part series… How to Land Your Dream Girl.
Part 1: What women look for in a guy
Before stalking your prey, you must first seek to understand her motivations and instincts.
1) Personality, personality, personality
Sure that new skin, outfit, or whatever will help you get noticed, but it won’t seal the deal. It all comes down to personality, and for that my best advice to you is to be yourself. Women can sense when you are being fake, and even if you are able to pull it off for a few dates, she will eventually figure out that you aren’t who she thought you were and then things will fall apart at the seams.
I think it is time to bust that myth that girls are attracted to bad boys. Girls are attracted to guys with confidence, guys who know where they are in life, and who are fun to be around. Most women have figured out that guys will act as dicks in direct inverse proportion to the size of their manhood. Put simply: the bigger the dick, the smaller the prick! the bigger the ass, the smaller the mass!
Nice guy <> wuss, but it does mean a genuine honest approach to living where you aren’t out to just bully your way through life. You want to land a woman with self-esteem, and not someone who enjoys being dominated or walked over.
Women are used to being hit on and picked up ALL the time. Starting out with lame pickup lines, or asking her where she lives, or if she has a web cam are not going to get you even up to bat… let alone to first base, unless you are paying for the encounter. They want to hear something different and unique from you.
Women want to be licked in public. By this I mean they want to be appreciated and shown attention. Notice if she changed her skin, hair, outfit, tattoo etc, because this will show you are paying attention to her. When you first make contact, you better be closing down all those background IM’s and other convo’s going on. Giving her your full attention, shows that you are there only for her at that point in time.
4) Hot pixels
I honestly believe that if you have the right personality that you can land the hot chick without any window dressing… see exhibit A:
Hawks surrounded by hot chicks in noob skin/clothing
But, it really doesn’t hurt to at a minimum purchase, skin, hair, and a few decent outfits. You don’t hafta be able to change every hour on the hour, but if you invite her out to do something on the beach and only have a trench coat then it is going to create some awkward moments. Your clothes should reflect who you are, and how you see yourself.
No one is here in SL to be bored… lol. There are tons of things to do, and see, and experience. We will cover some of the options in upcoming segments, but obviously you want to keep it fun or she will run.
Okay, so we have spent some time on what women want, this is not an exhaustive list, but enough of the basics that if you deliver these goods you have a great shot at landing your dream girl… next up for Part 2: we’ll cover how to make the first move and do’s and dont’s for the first date.